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Such a common lived experience for people across all demographics. It manifests in various ways, but seems to be most acute in spousal separations. Such are the supply shortages and waiting lists for public housing, many are just a failed relationship away from homelessness.

With a year passing since this entry, I hope you're in a better place. Be it euphemistically, literally, or both.

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Like your dad, I love Jacki Chan movies too. Beautiful write up!

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I’ll stop @-ing you on the tweeters whenever one of these comes in (lol) but it’s another great article. My mother died unexpectedly with about two days notice 4 years ago and all the little gaps you eke out here hit pretty deep. My last words to her over the phone were, ‘Jesus woman go to bed, you sound like you’re dying’ after she apologised for probably not being able to babysit the kids that weekend.

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